https://zakschafer.com/2026/05/16/exchanging-occasional-messages-with-people-who-do-not-at-all-care-and-to-who-you-dont-even-fully-exist/zakschafer.comen2026-05-17T00:09:33+00:00exchanging occasional messages with people who do not at all care and to who you don’t even fully exist